Top 10 Tips for Traveling with an Autistic Child

Top 10 Travel Tips for Families with an Autistic Child

Traveling with an autistic child can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming. As a seasoned traveler with a child on the autism spectrum, I’ve gathered valuable insights that have transformed our family vacations into unforgettable adventures. Here are my top ten travel tips to help you prepare for a stress-free and enjoyable journey with your autistic child.

Plan Thoroughly

Effective planning is essential when traveling with an autistic child. The more you plan, the smoother your trip will go. Start by choosing a destination that caters to your child’s needs. Research stops along the route to find places where your child can take breaks, and check for internet connectivity to ensure you can stay connected and access necessary resources.

Consider the facilities available for washing and bathing, as these routines can be crucial for your child’s comfort. Look for sensory-friendly activities that will engage and calm your child. Ensure your accommodations are not only comfortable but also tailored to your child’s sensory needs, such as providing quiet rooms, blackout curtains, or soundproofing.

Bring Sensory Items

Sensory input and regulation are crucial for many autistic children. Pack familiar sensory items that your child finds comforting, such as a favorite blanket, soft toys, noise-canceling headphones, or sensory chew toys. These items can help your child feel more secure in unfamiliar environments.

Consider creating a sensory travel kit that includes items like weighted lap pads, stress balls, or fidget spinners. These can be invaluable during travel to keep your child calm and occupied. If your child has a specific sensory preference, such as certain textures or smells, incorporate these into your travel plans.

Maintain a Routine

Children with sensory challenges often thrive on routine. Try to stick to your child’s usual schedule as much as possible. This means keeping regular meal times, sleep schedules, and activity patterns. Create a visual schedule with pictures or symbols to help your child understand and anticipate changes in their routines.

These schedules must be individualized to suit your child’s specific needs. For example, if bath time is at 7 PM every night, try to maintain that schedule even while traveling. Consult your child’s autism school or therapist to create a comprehensive and effective visual schedule.

Involve Your Child in Planning

Involving your child in the planning process can make a big difference. Communicate with them before the trip, include them in packing, and let them help prepare for the adventure. This step is important even with non-verbal children. Use social stories or visual aids to explain the upcoming journey.

By involving your child, you help them feel more in control and reduce anxiety about the unknown. Ask them to choose between two destinations or decide which activities they would prefer. This empowers them and makes the experience more enjoyable.

Ensure Suitable Accommodation

Before booking, ensure that the accommodation meets all your child’s needs. This can include dietary restrictions, Wi-Fi access, unlimited power supply, window and door safety for climbers, and appropriate bathroom essentials.

Contact the accommodation in advance to discuss your child’s specific needs. Ask about the noise levels, availability of quiet rooms, and any special arrangements they can make to accommodate your child’s sensory preferences. Some hotels offer autism-friendly services, such as sensory-friendly rooms or staff trained in autism awareness.

Pack Essentials

For both road trips and flights with autistic children, pack all the essentials. This includes medication, snacks, battery backups, and any other comfort items your child may need. Make sure you are well-prepared for any unexpected delays along the way.

Create a checklist of essential items to ensure nothing is forgotten. Pack extra supplies of necessary items in case of emergencies. Consider bringing a portable charger for electronic devices and a small first-aid kit.

Avoid Sensory Triggers

Be mindful of sensory triggers and try to avoid them. For sensory seekers, pack items like fidget toys to keep them engaged and calm during the trip. Identify potential triggers such as loud noises, bright lights, or strong smells, and plan ways to minimize their impact.

For example, if your child is sensitive to loud noises, bring noise-canceling headphones or earplugs. If they are sensitive to bright lights, pack sunglasses or a hat with a brim. Always have a backup plan for situations that may cause sensory overload.

Plan for Safe Spaces

Having a plan for safe spaces is vital. Know what to do if your child becomes distressed: who will handle what, where to take your child, and whether there is a place for them to regulate and regroup.

Identify quiet areas in advance where your child can retreat if they become overwhelmed. This might include rest areas during a road trip or a designated quiet room in an airport. Having a pre-arranged plan helps ensure that you can quickly and effectively respond to your child’s needs.

Use Technology Wisely

Many autistic children find comfort in technology. Tablets and smartphones can be lifesavers during travel. Load devices with educational apps, videos, and games to keep your child entertained during transit.

Consider downloading calming apps or white noise apps to help soothe your child during stressful times. Make sure all devices are fully charged and have backup batteries or chargers. Technology can provide a familiar and engaging distraction that helps ease travel-related anxiety.

Stay Flexible

Flexibility is perhaps the most important tip. Travel can be unpredictable, and even the best-laid plans can go awry. Keep calm and be prepared to adjust your plans as needed. A flexible, stress-free approach helps soothe your child’s anxiety, leading to a happier, more enjoyable holiday for everyone.

Remember, it’s okay to take breaks and adjust your plans as needed. If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to change course. The goal is to keep your child happy and comfortable, which in turn will make the trip more enjoyable for the entire family.

By following these tips and staying attuned to your child’s needs, you can turn a potentially stressful experience into a memorable adventure. A happy autistic child equals a happy holiday!

Ilse Kilian-Ross
ilse@amazingk.co.za

Ilse Kilian-Ross is the owner of Amazing K, a registered ECD and Partial Care Facility in Johannesburg. Amazing K is a private adhd school, autism school and therapy centre for children from age 2 - 6 years where learners receive the best of both the schooling and therapy world. The autism school offers Individualized Education Programs, Speech- and Augmentive Alternative Communication (AAC) therapy as well as a full and adapted Academic Curriculum.