Early signs of autism often appear between 18 months and 3 years of age. While every child is different, recognising these signs can help you seek the right support sooner.
What Are the Signs of Autism in Toddlers?
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) affects each child differently, but there are common signs that parents often notice during the toddler years, typically between 18 months and 3 years of age. At Amazing K, many families have observed one or more of the following signs:
Communication Differences
- Limited or no speech
- Not responding to their name
- Not using gestures such as pointing or waving
- Repeating words or phrases (echolalia)
- Losing previously used words
Social Interaction Differences
- Limited eye contact
- Preferring to play alone instead of with others
- Lack of interest in other children
- Not smiling in response to others
Sensory and Behavioural Signs
- Strong reactions to sounds, textures, lights, or certain environments
- Unusual ways of playing with toys, such as lining them up or spinning wheels
- Repetitive movements like hand-flapping or rocking
- Intense interest in specific topics or routines
- Resistance to changes in routine
It’s important to note that not all children will exhibit every sign, and some behaviours may also be related to other developmental differences. If you notice any of these behaviours in your toddler, or if you feel that something is not quite typical, it’s always a good idea to seek early intervention.
At Amazing K, we support children with or without a formal diagnosis. Our team is trained to recognize early signs of autism and other developmental delays, and we are here to walk this journey with you—gently, respectfully, and with your child’s needs in mind.
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Why is early autism diagnosis important?
The earlier a child is diagnosed with autism, the sooner appropriate intervention can begin. Delays in diagnosis often lead to delays in critical developmental milestones related to speech, communication, and social interaction.
At what age can autism be diagnosed?
Research shows that autism can be diagnosed as early as 2 years old. In many cases, behavioural symptoms may begin to show around 12 months of age.
What does it mean when a child is diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)?
Autism is a complex neurological condition that affects communication, social interaction, learning, and behaviour. Each child with autism is unique, and symptoms can vary widely in severity and presentation.
What does a developmental assessment typically include?
Start by speaking to your child’s paediatrician or GP. If concerns persist, ask for referrals to developmental specialists. Keep records of your child’s behaviours and development to support the process.
Are there affordable options for diagnosis and support?
Some public hospitals and NGOs offer developmental assessments, though waiting times can be long. Private services are available but may be costly. Exploring multiple options is advised.
What does a developmental assessment typically include?
A thorough assessment may involve:
- Behavioural observations across different settings
- Cognitive evaluations (e.g., memory, problem-solving)
- Speech and language testing
- Social and emotional development reviews
- Motor skills assessments
- Sensory processing evaluations
- Play and academic skill analysis
- Adaptive/daily living skills assessments
Why is a formal diagnosis so important?
A formal diagnosis is often required to access essential support services, therapies, and specialised educational placements. Without it, families may struggle to get the help their child needs.
I’ve just received my child’s autism diagnosis—what now?
Receiving a diagnosis can be emotionally overwhelming. The most important first step is to pause, breathe, and gather reliable information to make informed decisions about your child’s care and development.
Where should I start looking for help in South Africa?
- Autism Therapy Centres
- Autism Treatment Centres
- Autism Early Intervention Centres
- Autism Schools and Academies
- Homeschooling (if suitable for your family)
Visit centres in person where possible to determine which environment and programme best suit your child’s needs.
What are the most important things to keep in mind when choosing an intervention or school?
- Consider proximity to your home—autism care is a long journey, and convenience matters
- Choose a centre or school based on programme quality, not prestige or price
- Focus on your child’s immediate developmental needs
- Trust your instincts—you know your child best
How do I prepare myself for this journey?
- Learn as much as you can about autism, therapies, and terminology
- Understand autism holistically—don’t only focus on one symptom like a speech delay
- Accept that each child is unique—what works for one Autist may not work for another
- Take it one step at a time and don’t overwhelm yourself with too much information at once
Tax Benefits for Families with Disabilities
In South Africa, individuals with disabilities, including those with autism, can potentially qualify for disability-related tax benefits through SARS. To claim these benefits, certain criteria need to be met:
Disability Criteria for Tax Benefits
- Moderate to Severe Limitation: The disability must cause a moderate to severe limitation in daily activities due to physical, sensory, communication, intellectual, or mental impairment.
- Duration: The disability should last, or be expected to last, for at least 12 months.
- Diagnosis: A registered medical practitioner must diagnose the disability. This is a key requirement to complete the ITR-DD form.
Key Steps:
- Get a Formal Diagnosis: Have a medical practitioner confirm the disability (in this case, autism) and complete the ITR-DD form.
- Submit to SARS: Include the form with your tax return (ITR12) for the relevant tax year. You don’t need to submit the form with the return unless requested by SARS during an audit.